There are plenty of questionable choices that I have made over our life when looking back on it.
Mostly, I have been a compassionate, ethical & relaxing person.
However, there are absolutely instances where I could have done more for others. In those few cases, I was aware of the fact that I wasn’t doing all I could. Usually, it had to do with a personal feeling of someone involved. I find it a bit tough to help someone out who tends to absolutely not like me. But, I can’t just sit on our butt in the Heating & Air Conditioning when there is someone in our life who is in need. Even when that person goes out of their way to disrespect me. This could not be more true than in our dealing with our mother in law. This person has disliked me from the day she set eyes on me. And, she goes out of her way to make that known. I can’t rest it but, she is still family. My mother in law lost her hubby a bit more than a year ago so, she now lives undoubtedly near us. She purchased a small cabin with, what I pointed out to be, the worst Heating & Air Conditioning. She did it anyway & of course, it failed not too long ago. Now, it’s up to me to be sure that she gets the right Heating & Air Conditioning substitute. I met with the Heating & Air Conditioning guy & the people I was with and I were able to settle on both the model & the price. Meanwhile, our mother in law is living with us until the modern Heating & Air Conditioning gets installed. She is the worst. I have done all of this Heating & Air Conditioning stuff out of a sense of familial duty however she continues to treat me like dirt. And, in our own beach cabin I might add.