There are plenty of questionable choices that I have made over my life when looking back on it. Mostly, I have been a compassionate, ethical and good person. However, there are certainly instances where I could have done more for others. In those few cases, I was aware of the fact that I wasn’t doing all I could. Usually, it had to do with a personal feeling of someone involved. I find it a bit tough to help someone out who tends to really not like me. But, I can’t just sit on my butt in the HVAC when there is someone in my life who is in need. Even when that person goes out of their way to disrespect me. This could not be more true than in my dealing with my mother in law. This woman has disliked me from the day she set eyes on me. And, she goes out of her way to make that known. I can’t stand it but, she is still family. My mother in law lost her husband a bit more than a year ago so, she now lives very near us. She bought a small cottage with, what I pointed out to be, the worst HVAC. She did it anyway and of course, it failed not too long ago. Now, it’s up to me to be sure that she gets the right HVAC upgrade. I met with the HVAC guy and we were able to settle on both the model and the price. Meanwhile, my mother in law is living with us until the new HVAC gets installed. She is the worst. I have done all of this HVAC stuff out of a sense of familial duty but she continues to treat me like dirt. And, in my own home I might add.